How can I get a guy to have with me?

Wow you are gonna make that old dude lose it when you actually make your move. Sounds like he is just a naturally outgoing, confident, flirty type. He would definitely bang you, but probably has no idea that you'd be down for that. Go over the your neighbor's house when he's there and casually get him alone like in the kitchen while everyone else I watching TV, take his hand, get close (like chests touching close) and look right into his eyes. He should take it from there and give your that deep pionate kiss you've been dreaming of. Good Luck.