My car is wobbling slightly and my gear stick is shaking like anything once i get over 65mph it stops ?

well the shaking over 65 mph is most likely due to either a suspension issue or tires(maybe even tire balance), the slight wobbling is due to suspension issues. Either a weld is broken, tie rod bent/worn, or other suspension part either damaged or worn. Get your tires and suspension checked first then get the alignment. if you get the alignment done first it will mask the problem and you will pay for it later.